Almost everyone knows someone who did everything right and still got breast cancer, says Dr. Victoria Seewaldt, co-leader of the breast and ovarian cancer program at the Duke University Comprehensive Cancer Center.
That can make women feel like they have no control.
While you cant control your genes, there are powerful steps you can take to protect yourself. But experts say theres a lot of confusion about what really matters. Heres what they want you to know ...
LIFESAVING SCREENINGS
1. Clinical breast exams are as important as mammograms.
Mammograms starting at age 40 are crucial (get them earlier if you have a family history of the disease), but theyre an imperfect screening tool, especially in women who have dense breasts. Thats why an annual clinical breast exam from a doctor is a must.
This is especially important for detecting inflammatory breast cancer (a rare but aggressive type that can make the breast swollen and red), which often doesnt show up on mammograms, explains Dr. Katherine B. Lee, a breast specialist at the Cleveland Clinic Breast Center.
On the other hand, ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS), the earliest form of breast cancer, which is limited to the milk ducts, is most often found on mammograms. So both screenings are equally important.
2. Self-exams really can help.
Its good to do them at the same time every month, but dont stress out if you dont have them penciled into your planner. What self-exams do is help you become familiar with whats normal for your breasts. So when somethings off, youll know and can bring it to your doctors attention.
3. Dont panic if you get called for a mammogram redo or have calcifications.
Many women older than 40 have calcium deposits (calcifications) in their breasts, and most of them are benign.
Its part of the aging process of the tissue, explains Dr. Lee. These can show up as white spots on a mammogram they tend to be harmless if theyre large, coarse, solitary spots, but are suspicious if the tiny flecks cluster together in a linear pattern.
Most radiologists can distinguish between the two, and only the suspicious ones warrant a biopsy.
HOW DIET AND EXERCISE LOWER YOUR RISK
4. Active women are less likely to develop and die from breast cancer.
Regular exercise has consistently been associated with a lower risk. Any type of exercise is likely to help by lowering estrogen levels, Seewaldt explains. Whats more, a new study from the University of South Carolina suggests that women with high aerobic fitness levels have a 55 percent lower chance of dying from breast cancer than their less-fit peers. So get moving!
5. Get your folate.
A growing body of research suggests that getting enough of the B vitamin folate (in leafy green vegetables, beans and fortified cereals) may help mitigate the increased risk associated with drinking alcohol. (Having two or more drinks a day ups breast cancer risk by about 25 percent.) Go easy on the alcohol, but if you have one drink daily, getting plenty of folate from your diet or a multivitamin may help, says Dr. Claudine Isaacs, director of the clinical breast cancer program at Georgetown University Medical Center.
6. Being overweight is riskiest after menopause.
When it comes to breast cancer, its the postmenopause pounds that are particularly dangerous. In postmenopausal women, one of the most significant sources of estrogen comes from body fat, explains Dr. Isaacs. So if youre overweight, you have higher amounts of circulating estrogen, which could stimulate breast cancer growth. And it doesnt take much: Losing even 10 pounds could help lower your risk.
7. Steer clear of soy supplements.
Soy contains isoflavones, which can act like estrogen in your body and potentially stimulate the growth of certain types of breast cancer, explains Dr. Seema A. Khan, a professor of surgery and co-leader of the breast cancer program at Northwestern University in Chicago. Supplements usually contain more concentrated doses of isoflavones, so experts recommend avoiding them. But soy foods edamame, soy milk, tofu are fine.
HOW YOUR BREASTS LOOK AND FEEL
8. Lumpy breasts dont mean a higher cancer risk.
Many women have cysts in their breasts that come and go throughout their menstrual cycles (which also are known as fibrocystic changes). Feeling any kind of lump or bump can be scary, but these types of cysts dont typically lead to cancer, Seewaldt points out. Still, its especially important for women who have fibrocystic breasts to do breast self-exams and get annual exams.
9. Pain isnt usually a sign of breast cancer.
If you have pain in one or both breasts, rest assured: Its probably due to hormonal changes, a benign cyst, a ligament strain or another condition, Dr. Isaacs says. More common warning signs of breast cancer include a palpable lump, a change in the size or shape of the breast, puckering of the skin, nipple changes (like scaling or discharge) or increased warmth changes you should bring to your doctors attention ASAP.
10. Women with very dense breasts are four times more likely to develop breast cancer.
When breast tissue is dense, the cells grow and multiply at a faster rate, which means theres more of a chance for some to become abnormal or cancerous, explains Lee. Ask your doctor whether you have dense breasts. Since mammograms arent as effective at detecting cancer in very dense breasts, if yours fall into this category, you might benefit from getting regular MRI scans or ultrasounds plus mammograms.
YOUR ODDS
11. Breast cancer risk is not 1 in 8 for all women.
That stat applies to lifetime risk, assuming you live to 85 or beyond. At age 40, the average woman has a 1 in 69 chance of getting breast cancer in the next 10 years; at 50, the risk rises to 1 in 42; at 60, its 1 in 29; and at 70, its 1 in 27. Which means, statistically speaking, women are at most risk for breast cancer in their 70s and 80s but thats when breast cancer has the highest cure rate because women in that age group usually get a less aggressive and more treatable form of the disease, Seewaldt says.
12. A family history doesnt mean youll definitely get it.
Only about 15 percent of people who develop breast cancer have a family history of the disease, and an even smaller number 5 to 10 percent carry a BRCA1 or 2 mutation (the so-called breast cancer genes).
13. If its caught early, breast cancer has a more than 90 percent survival rate in the U.S.
The majority of women who get breast cancer in this country dont die from it, says Dr. Powel Brown, a medical oncologist at the Baylor College of Medicine in Houston and a member of the scientific advisory board for Susan G. Komen for the Cure.
At stage 0 (which means the cancers confined to the milk ducts) and stage I (a tumor is 2 cm or less and hasnt spread beyond the breast), the five-year survival rate is now 100 percent, according to the American Cancer Society. Five years may not sound like much, but if you get to the five-year benchmark without a recurrence, your prognosis for leading a long, healthy life is good, Seewaldt says.
At stage II (the tumor is between 2 and 5 cm or the cancer has spread to one to three lymph nodes), the five-year survival rate is 86 percent. Thanks to better screening, most breast cancers in the U.S. are now caught in the early stages.
14. Many factors affect your risk.
Family history isnt the only thing that matters: Other factors come into play, including when you first got your period, if or when you have children and how active you are. Discuss all the details of your lifestyle and medical history with your doctor so he or she can make sure youre getting the right screenings at the right time.
15. A father or brother with prostate or colon cancer can raise your risk.
These are signs of possible BRCA1 or 2 mutations, Lee says. These gene mutations can run on your dads side, so be sure to ask whether any of his female relatives had breast or ovarian cancer.
IF YOURE AT HIGH RISK
16. Get an MRI and a mammogram.
Doing both will increase the odds of finding small tumors in women who are at high risk (if you have a strong family history of breast and ovarian cancer and carry the BRCA1 or 2 mutation). However, an MRI should be ordered only under the care of a breast specialist, says Dr. Anne Wallace, a team leader of the Moores Cancer Center breast program at the University of California, San Diego.
17. If you have the BRCA1 or 2 mutations, removing your ovaries lowers risk by nearly 50 percent.
Your ovaries produce hormones, so taking them out changes the hormonal mix, explains Dr. Dahlia Sataloff, a clinical professor of surgery at the University of Pennsylvania and director of the Integrated Breast Center at Pennsylvania Hospital in Philadelphia.
18. Taking certain medications can help.
Tamoxifen and raloxifene are drugs that can block estrogens ability to promote breast cancer. They lower the chances of developing the disease by about 50 percent in women who carry the BRCA1 or 2 mutation, Brown says.
These medications can be used for five years and the risk reduction continues for 10 years after stopping them, Brown says. Yet most women who are candidates for the drugs arent taking them.
Of course, there are side effects: Both drugs can worsen hot flashes, and tamoxifen increases the risk of uterine cancer. But for some women, those risks are considered worth the benefit.
TREATMENT
19. Breast cancer is not a single disease.
Whats helped doctors and scientists develop more effective treatments is realizing that there are different types of breast cancer with different causes. Among the primary ones: estrogen-receptor-positive breast cancers, whose growth is fueled by the hormone estrogen; HER-2-positive breast cancers, which contain a protein called HER-2/neu; and triple-negative breast cancers, which dont have receptors for estrogen, progesterone or HER-2.
20. Chemotherapy isnt always a given.
These days, doctors do genetic profiling on a breast cancer tumor (using advanced tests like the Oncotype DX or MammaPrint) to gauge a womans risk of a recurrence. If chances are low, doctors might not be advising chemotherapy.
Were being more selective about using chemotherapy to help women avoid unnecessary toxicity and having to go through unnecessary suffering, Wallace says.

